I've had enough of this damn life...?

I know when I was her age (my younger sister, Vanessa), I was also obsessed with online games...As I become older, I see a new perspective of life when I became a follower of Christ...But I began to feel guilty and frustrated every time I see her like that...I failed as a sister...because of me, she became like this...obsessed with online games...study got study, but where got study enough as her SPM (Final Exam) is around the corner...? Give her advice, she say I ruin her life...She always find online boyfriend...everything was my fault...it's my fault...because of me, she became like this...I don't know what to do anymore...I failed as a sister to her...I gave her a bad example instead of a good one...When my parents see me giving her advice, they say I'm scolding her instead...both of my parents are on her side...only my brother understands me...I told my brother everything...he say that I shouldn't blame everything on myself...he told me to leave her alone...but every time I see her playing online games instead of studying...I just can't sit there and do nothing...this matter cause me to cry all the time and worsen my depression...I always tend to have an emotional break down...I told her to give up her way of living in a sinful life and accept Jesus into her heart, until now, she never did...her number one important thing in her life is online games...but not God...I really am at wits end...I really don't know what to do anymore...I just feel like running away from home...and go to some peaceful place where I don't need to face anyone or even anybody...I've had enough of this damn life...?
First of all, maybe your sister isn't ready to give up her online games yet. She will get bored with them once she gets a little older. Or maybe if you explain things to your parents, and everyone who is on your side, you all can have an intervention for her.

You shouldn't feel that way at all. Its not your fault. Everyone loves the internet. You also shouldn't run away from home. If you truly are a believer of God then you must know that you're not supposed to worry. Give God your worries and pray for your sister always. God is faithful, and he will never let you sink. Read your bible if you're having faith issues. Remember Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John. You can have your peaceful place just by believing, you dont have to run away to be peaceful.
Oh reeeallly? not the answer you want huh? ok then you just tell me what you want to hear so I can copy %26amp; paste it next time. And yes it is wrong to beat your sister over the head with a bible...not everyone shares your beliefs.

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I've had enough of this damn life...?
You can only plant the seed of faith. You can not convince her. That is God's job.

Her choice to choose God when she is ready. Just love her and live your life the best you can as a example. Perhaps you need to distant your self a little from involvement in her life as it apparently hurting you more than it should be.
You seem to be the one who has depression and instead of looking at why you are saying too your sister I am really depressed don't play online be like me. You say you have found God but don't believe he put us here for a reason and your path may be completely different from your sisters. Surely your sisters happiness is what should count not what you think should make her happyI've had enough of this damn life...?
She's hooked on online games but she'll get bored with them eventually. btw there's nothing worse than a nagging sister.
Colormehappy, could you be any more cliche?
just because you got with God doesn't mean your 'lil sis has to. Stop trying to force your ideals onto someone else.
She's reaching her SPM and you're worried? That's not good, you're worrying over nothing at all!
GOD is not REAL
You keep God in her life , Thats what God does,watch your mouth!
first off....you have nothing to do with her obsession with online games. it was her choice to start playing them so it was all her and no you.



secondly....don't nag her let her do her own thing. people who want to study will study if they don't we'll they don't



thirdly....regarding religion, you may be a big believer in God but that gives you completely no right to thrust you opinions upon someone else. Everyone is different and everyone believes in different things and because we now live in this time there's NOTHING WRONG with that.



fourth...take a bubble bath it should calm you nervous break downs you seem to so often have