What on earth should I do ..how do I get myself outta this crap ??

My life sucks right now......

I have been playing second life online game for a while...

I fell in love with this guy I met in second life (I feel stupid like hell that I fell in love )..I myself wonder that how on earth can I fall in love online...I mean I have only seen his pic..never met him personally...he lives in another country...Its been three months now..I have not shown him my pics because of security reasons...I want to meet him personally, he too wants to, but am not willing right now because of my studies..What if things went wrong ? I mean its the crucial phase of my career..my final year..I dont want any distraction from studies and I dont wanna cry due to heart break coz that would affect my studies..Sometimes I feel like ending this relation..I even took a break from him for a week..but went back to him...Its really hard to forget him..What on earth should I do ? HOW DO I MOVE ON ? I feel he too doesn't love me like he used to..There isnt 100% trust either coz he hasnt seen my pics..I want to put an end to this relation but I feel it would hurt real bad..It would be really hard to get over him..he's not the man that every girl desires but he's so close to that perfect man...thats why I fell for him..Now what do I do ??? am 22 btw

Is it even love ? Sometimes I feel we both fell for the perfect looking avatars of each other..lol..If u know about Secondlife game, u will know that its a perfect world out there with avatars that look real with flawless skins and super model bodies...What on earth should I do ..how do I get myself outta this crap ??
True story: I fell for someone I met on Y!A. Hard. She lived halfway across the US from me. We talked A LOT for a few months, and it麓s inevitable that some feelings are created. However, eventually she met someone where she lived, and dropped me like a hot potato. I was absolutely devastated.



I麓m also a college student. Sure, I was hurt. But I didn麓t let that affect my studies. Only time heals... And in a month or so, I was over it.



Good luck, and be careful.What on earth should I do ..how do I get myself outta this crap ??
It sounds more like infatuation to me.What on earth should I do ..how do I get myself outta this crap ??
get off the computer--get something to do outside--get a job---get a life---read a book---do something other than dream about some guy in another country. This is 12 year old stuff--you are 22--do you think this is normal??
r u sure thats him? what if he's dangerous?? ever thought of that...just say i dont want to meet you